Today on MSN there was this article entitled "10 reasons to give thanks to women".... I read it out of curiosity, I don't always agree with what is said because they are usually extreme generalizations... however, this article spoke to me in a way that these types of articles normally don't. In fact, I found it so relevant, to myself at least, that I decided to post the reasons here.... Here we go:
"1. Like it or not, we groom you for a real relationship
Whether it’s the mom who taught you to respect us, the sister who told you our secrets, or even the last girl who dumped you because you weren't ready to settle down, the women in your life help to shape you into the best man you can possibly be. So that when you meet The One, you’ll be ready, willing and able. "
This is fairly true, I mean think about it... we always give our guy friends advice... in my case, with regards to a certain friend, I am brutally honest and blunt. I like to think this gives him a slight insight into women's minds!
"2. We’re sympathetic
Before we try to solve the problem (as men tend to do), we acknowledge it. We say things like: “That must have hard for you seeing your friend get the promotion instead of you—how do you feel about it?” It may not seem like much, but a world without women’s compassion and understanding would be a pretty cold place."
This is extremely true. I can't even count how many times I've said "wow, that's horrible, how are you dealing with that?" or something along those lines, while from a male the response would have been "wow, what are you going to do about it?" which offers no sympathy, no mention of the other persons feelings....
"3. We’re extraordinary ego-boosters
If it seems as though women are forever fishing for compliments, it’s because they’re nice to hear, especially when they’re sincere. That’s why we dole them out—about how handsome you look in that suit, how awesome you are at air hockey, how mind-blowing you are in bed, et cetera."
Soooo true! I am always giving Antonio compliments, and I mean them, I dole them out constantly and willingly... I like to make him feel good about himself.....
"4. We’re soft
Soft hair, soft lips, soft skin… and so forth. All in all, it’s a pretty huggable package."
This is also true. Antonio makes fun of the fact that every time I get out of the shower I spend a good chunk of time, when I have it, putting on lotion.....it's so #1 I smell good and #2 so I am soft! So there!!!!
"5. We keep your social life hopping
Before there were Palm Pilots, there were women. We organize, we schedule, we remember. Admit it—you get out a whole lot more and have a more interesting life when you’re dating someone who wants to do something besides sit home and watch TV all the time."
I will admit that I am a bit of a homebody, but it is true that if it wasn't for me Antonio wouldn't travel as much as he does!
"6. We listen
The stereotype of woman as chatterbox is unfair. OK, scratch that—we do love to talk. But not in a vacuum. That’s why we’re always urging you to talk; we believe in communication and that means we want to listen, too. Go ahead, open up—tell us what you were like as a little kid and how you plan to save the world."
I do love to talk.... a lot, but I am an amazing listener too!
"7. We have a civilizing influence
Yes, you probably could survive in a bachelor pad adorned with nothing but a TV and a six-pack in the fridge. But once a woman enters the picture, prepare to see some improvements even if you’re not living together yet. Due to our nest-feathering instincts, we strategically place pillows, search for thick, absorbent bath towels, and not only use sheets but change them regularly. Ahhhh! "
Oh dear lord... this couldn't be more true!!!! Antonio had been living in our first apartment for over 3 years when I moved in and the only thin on the walls was a calendar, within a week of me having moved in the entire room was decorated... when his parents came to visit his mom commented, "it's obvious that there is a girl living here now". In our new apartment I decorated right away and he always comments on how nice it looks and how much he likes it... yea that's because I have that feminine touch! I like the house clean, and I change the sheets somewhere between every week to every 2.5 weeks, depending on the weather, whereas Antonio would change them like once a month, if that!!!! Gross!
"8. We inspire you to shoot for gold
Think it’s an accident the Muses were all women? Somebody’s got to encourage your rock opera, psyche you up before that job interview, and root for your basketball team. We do it because we recognize your potential and know you can achieve your goals. And we want to cheer you on."
I am Antonio's very personal cheerleader. I always cheer him on and let him know that if he puts his mind to it, he can achieve his goals!
"9. We make worthy opponents
Yeah, yeah, we’re soft and sweet most of the time. But engage us in battle, and we will tear your #%$^@ing head off. So be thankful — be very, very thankful — that we like you right now."
Females are the most cruel species I know of... Not only are we able to engage in physical battle, but our specialty is psychological war tactics.... and not only do we know your week points, but we aren't afraid to use them!
"10. If you want kids someday, we’re usually willing to have them
And the labor pains. And the stretch marks. And in between, the periods. You’re welcome."
Enough said!
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