My dream man

  Remember how I found some old stuff not too long ago.... well something that was in that box of stuff was a list i had made of qualities I looked for in a guy...On a lined sheet of paper I wrote:

Tall (at least 6ft)

Muscular but lean

Nice smile

Nice eyes

Big hands

Nice voice

No excessive hair...

...or smell

Funny

Smart

Well-read

*Has to get along with my friends

No violent tendencies

No habitual drug use or smoking

Must have a sense of style

These were non-negotiables! I have to admit that some of them still are, while I feel like I could turn a blind eye to others. I think there are things that are much more important than some of the physical features on that list... a sense of humor, being able to laugh at yourself, being able to make me laugh, caring about others..even if technically it's not your problem, being able to stand up for yourself, etc!